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Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #5524] Thu, 27 October 2011 17:26 Go to next message
dave008 is currently offline  dave008
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Ok I am single guy in eastern NC and I think I have fell in love with someone but the problem is she is 951 miles away and the thing is we meet in a dating site and we talked and instantly hit it off we have the same views like the same stuff and we exchanged facebook and emails but she lives in Missouri we have talked every night for two weeks and exchanged pics of each other (not dirty) and a couple of days ago she sent a message that said "it is like we were meant to be together" and I messaged back "yea it is, your perfect for me and vise versa" then she sent a message saying "This might weird you out but I don't care I will take that risk. I love you [enter my name]" and I sent back a message that said "it does not weird me out cause I love you too" she sent back a message saying "you make me so happy we will be together some day.

Bottom line I love her I am 17 she is 16 we get that our hormones might be making us feel this way and then I thought "since we are considering our hormones are doing this it might not be" I mean we talk every day and one day she was feeling really bad and I felt so bad for her is got tears in my eyes. I think about her ALL the time when we talk I feel happy and when she is not there I feel alone. We talked about meeting once but me and her have no free time at all.

What should I do? any advice will help.

Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #5561 is a reply to message #5524] Mon, 07 November 2011 20:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
SteveMarker is currently offline  SteveMarker
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Try to convince her that you love her don't want any excuses!
remember stay in touch of her...

Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #7058 is a reply to message #5524] Wed, 03 April 2013 06:36 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Trish0102 is currently offline  Trish0102
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Prove to her with your actions that you are really into her.
Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #9310 is a reply to message #5524] Fri, 27 November 2015 09:04 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NickLox1 is currently offline  NickLox1
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Actions speak louder than words, but not nearly as often. Anyway, people trust actions, not words. If u tell her u love her, miss her, like her whatever, she won't believe u until ur actions prove it. And the last thing: i want to ask u something. You created this topic 4 years ago, so how is your feeling now? Was it worth your efforts?
Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #9441 is a reply to message #5524] Thu, 24 December 2015 20:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Relationup is currently offline  Relationup
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I have no doubt that you two are in love. LOVE continues to evolve as you get older. The connection is real. You have a lot of life ahead of you both and no one knows how / when this will play out, but I promise you (as SteveMarker said) stay in touch with her. Make sure you are a great LONG DISTANCE) friend to her. One day you may be within proximity of each other to give it a real try. Life is funny that way and you will be surprised at how valuable it can be to have a friend that is always on your side even if she is 951 miles away.

Good luck, breathe, life will work itself out.

Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #9467 is a reply to message #5524] Mon, 04 January 2016 19:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
toptoy is currently offline  toptoy
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Girls love via ears. Tell her honest and sincere things. Show her that you're not indifferent. What did you actually do, to prove your feelings?
Re: Ok I got a big problem...REALLY BIG [message #9475 is a reply to message #5524] Wed, 06 January 2016 15:15 Go to previous message
LeePalm44 is currently offline  LeePalm44
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If you keep interest about women psychology, you should know that the thesis that "A woman loves with her ears" still works. Yes, like everybody knows about it, but usually ignore this advice, whether it seems not so significant ...

BUT absolutely anyone, and women in particular, focuses on that specific, real alive interest.

So, dear boys and men, make more compliments, learn more about the psychology of women, do not dare to rest on the laurels and will reward your efforts ... the desired effects. No song, no supper.
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