| In an online relationship meeting in July! [message #9677] |
Thu, 12 May 2016 19:50  |
lisa
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Registered: May 2016
Location: Arizona
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Hello,
My name is Lisa and I'm 33 years old. This past August an almost eleven year relationship ended, it would have been 11 years October 1st. The truth is when my ex boyfriend stopped his medication 3 years prior for his severe mental illness that's when things went downhill. So for three years I was tied to a guy who changed drastically, whom I barely saw!
For me I grieved and basically let my heart heal for those past three years so when it was time to break up it felt natural.
Well I decided in October I wanted to talk to people online start off with friendship and build from there. On a dating site in which I forgot the name of, this handsome guy sent me a message. Problem is at first was the distance. I myself was looking for people in my state. He and I hit it off so ever since October 13th we have been talking every day on skype and phone for seven months! We have sent eachother holiday gifts and birthday gifts.
Our parents both know about the other. He is coming down to where I live at the end of July to go on a horseback ride that he does every year with his dad. Well this time he, his dad and mom are coming with a friend to meet my parents and I at a restaurant for a couple if hours.
If he and I spark then we have plans for him to stay with me for four days in October!
I'm nervous!
Not only am I meeting him for the first time but his parents and their family friend all at once!
Then they are meeting my parents!
Any advice?
Both him and I have fallen for eachother and have a great bond. I mean we have seen all sides of eachother bad and good for seven months.
I just feel we are doing things backwards. Falling in love, skype dates, and being exclusive with eachother when we haven't met yet. Also the distance isn't too bad he lives 6 hours away.
We were supposed to have met in April but a family emergency came up and also he is packed with his work schedule.
I tend to over worry. Luckily him and I have excellent communication!
Thanks for any feedback.
Lisa
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